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Angels Among Us


There is a large group of women who mean the world to me. They live here in Phoenix and are a big part of why Tanner and I moved back.

This group has taught me a lot about myself and unconditional love. Through many conversations and countless hours of “chick chatter” I have learned a few lifelong lessons. In particular, I want to share one with you about “Asshole Angels.” These are individuals that are a pain in the rumpus to deal with, be with, etc. However, through their rage and unhappiness they, in fact, teach you lessons. Therefore, they are “Angels” in their own way.

instead of saying F___ You! Look at them and think, “THANK YOU!”

Throughout the last 3 years of my life, I have encountered said angel. Through these encounters this angel has helped me to create a list of the person I want to be with.

Additionally, a dear friend of mine (who also happens to be a licensed counselor...but CANNOT counsel me because of client rights, blah blah blah...) suggested I come up with a list.
Specifically, I was told...Put together a list of 15 "things" your ideal partner has that you require! If the person has 14 of the 15 you walk away because these are NON-NEGOTIABLE!

Without any more suspense...here are my 15!
  1. positive person
  2. looks at me and Tanner lovingly
  3. loyal
  4. honest
  5. dependable
  6. enjoys their career
  7. have goals in life
  8. respect my goals in life
  9. Open minded
  10. tolerant/accepting of people and different lifestyles
  11. respects me, children and overall all individuals
  12. random acts of kindness at random times
  13. values family and family time
  14. willing to make family traditions
  15. lifts me up when I am down

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